Rabbi Joseph Telushkin, author of Words That Hurt, Words That Heal, has lectured throughout this country on the powerful, and often negative, impact of words. He often asks audiences if they can go 24 hours without saying any unkind words about, or to, another person. Invariably, a small number of listeners raise their hands, signifying “yes.” Others laugh, and quite a large number call out, “no!”
Telushkin responds: “Those who can’t answer ‘yes’ must recognize that you have a serious problem. If you cannot go 24 hours without drinking liquor, you are addicted to alcohol. If you cannot go 24 hours without smoking, you are addicted to nicotine. Similarly, if you cannot go 24 hours without saying unkind words about others, then you have lost control over your tongue.”
How long could you go without saying something unkind to your spouse, your child, your parent, to the clerk who can’t seem to get your order right? How long could you go without saying something ugly about that person you are having a hard time getting along with, especially when the person you are visiting with can’t stop criticizing the other person. You might realize that you are addicted to harmful words.
Ask the Lord to help you hear what you are saying today.
“Words kill, words give life; they’re either poison or fruit—you choose.” – Proverbs 18:21 (The Message)













